I'm f w/ cp. Never had sex. Since I have enough feeling down there for 3 people it would hurt. I do RP w/ someone, they write then i do. I won't go into details here as it's far too complicated, but it started off as a way of relieving anxiety. My lap feels like it's velvet, my legs feel cold & numb & start to throb/pulse, I keep stiffening then relax, & on occasion I've been known to be incontinent. Minus the incontinence I love the feeling so much. It's happened @ concerts, too. Is it what I think it is?? I thought you had to actually do something for that to happen. How can it happen just through RP ??!!